The best years of our lives. A lot of people remorse that those years are behind them, our reunion demonstrated that our best years are what we make of the past, but can also be what we do in the present.
For the class of 1986 20th reunion we put together a committee of four: Robyn Ericsson, Maud Gabriel, Kate Petrie and myself. Over the course of about 9 months, we conversed by phone and were assisted the whole time by RISD staff member Courtney Capizzo (she was instrumental to our success). We decided what kind of events we wanted to have and dove tailed them with RISD Reunion Weekend pre-planned events.
RISD was very generous with space, but each of us on the committee contributed about $150 for refreshments for events during the weekend. I mention this not to pat ourselves on the back at what we contributed, but to say to other alumni classes what they can achieve in spending so little to do so much.
We started the weekend with registration and a reception at Woods-Gerry (along with all the other grad classes). Scores of grads returned. We figure that the key to our success was organizing a phone tree that re-connected our class throughout the preceding months.
After Woods-Gerry we walked as a group downtown for a casual interlude at Tazza café. We hugged, we kissed, we danced, we ate, we drank and I think a few sneaked around the corner to smoke pot.
The next day we had our personalized tour of RISD. I’m not sure the locations we chose were the most interesting or personally historical, but the main point and the best pleasure was being together and being silly.
That night we had another reception at Woods-Gerry. It was just our class with a few interlopers from our sister years (1985s, 1987s etc.), who had nowhere else to go and were welcome in our midst.
We then went to another all RISD event at the museum. A few of us older single studs tried to hook up with some recent grads, without much luck needless to say, but with the wealth of beauty that was our class, why bother anyway?
Then it was on to a private party and Robyn Ericsson’s (and her husband Chris’) beautiful Queen Anne house in the Armory District. In the parlor we danced the night away to the music of our years. We chatted in the living room and kitchen and smoked on the porch. We went much later than we could have ever gone at the Tap Room.
Finally on Sunday, we met for breakfast in the Refectory. Nearly everyone came. We stayed for hours. Through the morning people slowly gathered their things and intermittently disappeared to pass back into their home place worlds. Toward mid-day we hung out on the Refectory terrace in the beautiful Sun, took pictures and made plans to be together in the future. It was really like we had never left or been separate so long.
In all we had about 60 grads (+spouses, partners and children) come back. Or about 12% of our class. This is unheard of, but any other class can make it happen.
We were also very lucky to have Bill Gilbert, ’86, with us. Its safe for me to say that he had a great time. Bill passed away not to long after our reunion. Never put off today what you hope you can do tomorrow. I hope we have even a better turnout at the next one.
The photo links below to Maud’s Facebook pages will do the best job of telling what a time we had and what we did.
Isaac
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=22372&id=672078111
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=22457&id=672078111
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=22460&id=672078111
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